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 The Fourth Trimester: Prioritising Recovery and Rest

The Fourth Trimester: Prioritising Recovery and Rest

Bringing a new life into the world is monumental, but so is the journey that follows. The fourth trimester, those first 12 weeks after birth, is often overshadowed by focus on the baby, yet it's a pivotal time for mum’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Here’s our top tips to help you navigate this gentle but essential recovery period. 

Charlotte Hoskin
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Charlotte Hoskin

Investing Time in Your Recovery 

Even though caring for a newborn is demanding, carving out daily time for yourself is vital. Self-care isn't selfish, it’s nourishing for both body and mind. 

Self-care tools you can use: 

  • Warm Baths: Soothe a sore perineum or healing Csection wound with a gentle soak in Soak for Bits and Body, infused with Epsom salts, arnica, calendula, and bergamot offers physical relief and emotional calm. 

  • Targeted Care: Relief sprays with Spritz for Bits can ease soreness, while Nipple Balm can protect and soothe feeding discomfort 

  • Pelvic Floor Exercises: Begin as soon as you feel able, simple routines help rebuild core strength and improve bladder control. 

  • Set Aside “You Time”: Even 30 quiet minutes, whether it’s a walk, nap, or warm shower, it can create a reset moment in the chaos. 

Recovery After a Vaginal Birth 

Healing from a vaginal birth varies, and often, pressure to “bounce back” can do more harm than good. 

Key steps for recovery: 

  • Understand Tears: About 90% of first-time mums and 70% of those with subsequent babies, experience perineal tears or require an episiotomy 

  • Perineal Care: 

  • Stick to prescribed or over the counter (OTC) pain relief. 

  • Choose comfortable feeding positions (like side-lying) to ease pressure on stitches. 

  • Soak or shower twice daily to keep the area clean and reduce infection risk. 

  • Change maternity pads every four hours and wash hands thoroughly before and after.  

  • Watch for Warning Signs: If there’s increasing pain, unusual smell, discharge, or swelling, reach out to your midwife or GP. 

Recovery After a Caesarean Section (C-Section) 

C-section is major abdominal surgery, healing takes patience, time, and tender care 

What to expect and how to care: 

  • Recovery Timeline: 

  • First few days: Expect soreness, tiredness, and limited mobility. Gentle movement, restful sleep, and nourishment are crucial 

  • 1–2 weeks postnatal: A community midwife usually removes your wound dressing after 48 hours, but this can vary depending on the type of dressing and your wound. Your wound may appear bruised or raised, but sutures (stitches) are dissolvable 

  • By 6 weeks: Your wound is usually healed, but full cellular recovery may take up to 2 years 

  • Do’s and Don’ts: 

  • Do: Rest deeply, take prescribed pain relief, wear loose clothing, use gentle breastfeeding positions (like side-lying or football hold), create a healing "wound station" with essentials like Spritz for Bits, pillows, water, and snacks within reach 

  • Don’t: Lift anything heavier than your baby, compare your recovery to others, ignore signs of infection, skip hydration, avoid nutritious meals, delay bowel movements, or feel pressured to entertain visitors early on 

  • Emotional Support: Csections, especially if unexpected, can stir complex emotions. Lean on loved ones and remind yourself: healing is not linear 

  • Long-Term Scar Care: After 6 weeks, gentle massage with a nourishing serum can support tissue mobility and appearance 

Tips Shared Across All Recovery Journeys 

  • Prioritise Daily “Me Time”: Whether it's a short walk, warm soak, or restful pause daily rituals help restore balance 

  • Gentle Movement & Nourishment: From pelvic exercises to mindful nutrition and hydration these are healing essentials. 

  • Rest Without Guilt: Healing takes time. Allow yourself to do less and be patient with your body’s pace 

Final Thoughts: Nurturing the Fourth Trimester 

There’s no sugarcoating it, the fourth trimester is tender, tiring, and deeply transformative. But with each gentle bath, restful pause, and nourishing meal, you're reminding yourself that you matter too. 

Let recovery be about kindness, patience, and small moments of peace. Your body has done something extraordinary; let it heal with grace.